We know the dudes love receiving blow jobs, but a lot of guys also like it when you stimulate them using your hands.
With hand jobs, it could either go really well, or really wrong. This is because, when you do not use your hands in a way that will excite him, you might end up getting the opposite effects.
Lovepanky shares the best ways to give a hand job below;
1 Choose your potion. First of all, you should consider slicking up those magic hands. While it is possible to give a hand job with a dry hand, it can tend to hurt him due to friction. It’s also sexier when it’s slick, so pick a lubricant of your choice: water-based, oil-based, or silicon-based lube, or even your spit. Whatever it is, the kind of lubricant you use can be a game-changer and can turn a heated moment into full-throttle.
2 Choose your best position. When it comes to creating magic with your hands, it is best to find a position you are both comfortable in. You can jerk him off while you’re sitting on top of him or while lying on your side. You can also have him standing up in front of you while you sit on the bed, or he can straddle your stomach. Be inventive with your positions but ensure enough space for your hands to do their job.
3 Don’t be afraid of a firm grip. Your man is strong, and his penis has its share of strength-training too, so don’t be afraid to give it a confident grip. After all, it’s not a flower, so give it a real tug—but not too much.
4 Determine the height. The height of how you move your hand up and down his length is actually determined by how comfortably your man’s foreskin is being stretched as you move. If you pull down too far, you might strain the skin directly beneath his glans, and this will hurt, making him go soft.
Meanwhile, if you pull too high up, you may knock against his glans, which is very sensitive, and might therefore hurt him as well. You can observe him when he is masturbating, and see just how he strokes himself.
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5 Determine the speed. Although giving the perfect hand job is not rocket science, it still takes some careful calculations in terms of how fast you should go. Again, you can observe him as he gives you a show.
The important thing is to first start with slower, longer strokes to get a rhythm going, and once you both get warmed up, you can then speed up. Watch for his expressions and reactions to see if you’re going too fast that it hurts, or too slow that he might think you’re not in on it.
6 Fingers or hand? If you want to be a pro, you should learn to use every part of your hand, including the fingers. So as a form of teasing, you can run a finger from the head down to the balls in one smooth, seductive motion. For him, this would feel like one gentle tongue stroke in a blow job. Meanwhile, the palm is there for the bigger moves, like when you want to feel his dick getting harder as you perform the classic hand job.
7 One hand or two? A good way to jerk him off, aside from just grabbing him and tugging up and down with one hand, is to alternate between your lefty and righty. Or you can use both hands. The thing about this is your dominant hand might get too tired, so you have to switch it up and let your other hand get some “man hours” too.
8 And if you have a free hand? If you are an all-star and you can accomplish the deed with one hand, don’t just leave the other dangling. You can stimulate other parts of his body, such as his balls, which are incredibly sensitive. You can fondle his jewels or gently run your nails across them to give him an extra boost of pleasure. You can also massage his perineum, the area between his anus and scrotum, or even play with his butthole, whatever you both are into.
9 The flick of the wrist. If your arm gets tired and you want to minimize friction, you can also create magic with simple wrist rotations. Or gently rotate your hands as you slide them up and down his shaft to create a pleasant stimulation that will make him feel much more aroused compared to simply jerking and wringing his manhood.
10 Go to the tippy top to bring him over the edge. Aside from his balls, the most sensitive part of his privates is the top of his penis, or the glans. So when you’re giving a hand job, you should give this spot high priority. The easiest way to do this is to make a tight “O” shape with your thumb and index finger, and put it over the top of his penis. Then just move your hand up and down about a couple of inches to stimulate both the frenulum and the ridge of the glans.
11 Don’t forget the frenulum. The frenulum is that tiny patch of skin on the underside of his penis. It is a piece of flesh that joins the glans and the shaft—and it is mighty sensitive. You can run your finger over it as a teasing foreplay. If you get tired of moving your hand up and down, you can also take a break from the shaft and softly rub his frenulum for several seconds before going back to the shaft again.
12 Embrace variety. Now that you have read through most of the tips, by now you know that jerking your man up and down between your fingers isn’t the only way to do it. In fact, there may be 101 ways to make your man come with just your hand doing the work.
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